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Sunday, November 12, 2006

Relationship

Relationship is a bond between two human beings. It may be between wife and husband.It may be between childern and parents. It may be among sibilings, friends, or cousins.I strongly beleive in the following points to maintain a good relationship.
1. Understanding
2. Listening
3. Serving, helping or giving nature
4. Contolled tongue
5. Respect the relationship

Understanding:
This is the main thing should exist between two parties to prevail thier relationship. This makes people tied forever. This gives an opportunity to understand other's mentality, reactions, thoughts and behaviour. Thus, gives the one to move accordingly to maintain relationship. Also, it helps the one to help the other as per other's expections. That wil touch other's heart This is viceversa. The relationship grows very nicely.

Listening:
Listening is more important than talking. This solves 90% issues without taking any action. When one is keen to listen what is told, he is making direct connection to others heart. This develops comfortable reciprocation to share thoughts, ideas, issues etc. This helps to maintain sustainable relationship.

Serving/Giving/Helping Nature:
All human beings prefer to be served. But, if they know the universal principle of serving ohers and expect nothing from others, that would changes entire perspective of the world. Serving, helping or giving is more important and it will be reciprocated in multiples of what one has done.

Controlled Tongue:
This is another important point after listening. Everyone should have control on their tongue. Words should be selective and proper. Words used should not hurt the others in any case. One who has controlled tongue maintains good relationships.

Respect the relationship:
This is another crucial point. If one does not has a respect on the relationship what one has with other, it breaks immediatly. Also it never be taken by heart.

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